Truth

Men don't always go into situations looking for relationships but they get into them because they recognize a good lady when they see one. #truth

Happy Monday

Happy Monday folks! January is coming to a quick close, just like that. Some of you are in a committed relationship for 2011 and I'm very happy for you, given that it's a healthy relationship of course. If you are unsure if you're in one, I think that's something you need to clear up with your partner as soon as possible (remember what I talked about on communication). Please define the lines, so if he/she introduces you as just a friend to others...your feelings aren't crushed because HOPEFULLY you knew where you stood before that moment.

P.S. As Mike Mogul said "IF SOMEONE ISNT WILLING TO PROFESS THEIR LOVE/INTEREST FOR YOU/IN YOU PUBLICLY ... THEY PROBABLY ARENT WORTH THE TIME ..."

101

People have come up with 101 ways to make relationships more complicated, when 99% of the time it comes down to honest dialogue n good ole common sense.
Communication is essential folks. I mean face to face or voice over phone communication.

Remember that communication with the opposite sex is like trying to send a text msg with a Metro PCS phone on a plane - you attempt delivery, but it just won't go through. So how about we do it ole school and we talk in person. Gets more of your senses involved that way.

THIS JUST IN: Text messaging has been arrested in the attempted murder of effective communication. Text tried to kill real conversation. If all he does is send you words over a mobile device, it isn’t a real relationship. Oral communication is an intimate act so if a man goes as far as reaching out to pick up a phone and call or wants to talk to a lady in person, he’s definitely interested. Now back to your program already in progress.

Be real. Don't be scared to express yourself.

Man to Woman, Woman to Man

All this week, I think I'll decide to blog about relationships. So this will be the first note.
My homie Phonse was talking some real stuff the other day and as his female friend, I tend to always take note (My friends please make sure you surround yourself with friends of the opposite sex. You learn a lot and it helps to broaden your thinking).

But anyways so this is what Phonse had to say:
There are some women who would quickly leave a 70% man and label him as "BAD", then willingly move on to a 10% impostor posing as a 100% charm...until 90% falls off......then they soon realize if only they POLISHED the 70% man they had, then they would've been OK....No man is perfect, but a good man is better with a POLISHER! chi ching!

Lol so that's what the homie had to say and he's pretty much right. Everything that glitters isn't gold. A guy/girl may look good in a next girl's/guy's arm but when he/she gets with you, all the newness and charm fades. If you have a great guy/girl then stick with him/her.

Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. True Story.

I think the video says a lot. Just listen.

Your Success...Someone's Demise

Everytime you see the success of someone, you see the fall of another person. It's that simple. We saw the success of Myspace then we saw the fall of Hi-5. We saw the success of Facebook then we saw the decline of Myspace (poor Tom... he changed the face of myspace in hopes of getting ya'll back).

So what's the key to staying on top? Know the power of your brand. Know your competition. Stay relevant. Remain focused.
Of course it requires a whole lot more than those 4 points but you have to do your own research. Don't be lazy.

But on your journey to the top always remember that the road to success is not straight. There is a curve called failure, a loop called confusion, speed bumps called friends, red lights called enemies, caution lights called family and you will have flats called jobs. But, if you have a spare called determination, an engine called perseverance, insurance called faith, a driver called Jesus, then no doubt you will make it to a place called success.

Choose your own lane and run with it folks. :)

It's a New Year...Are You Changing?

So 2011 came in with a hot bang and a toast of champagne. I swear everyone and their mama made the same resolutions as the year before. *I hope they follow through this time around*. What's the point in making a New Year's resolution if you know you'll never even try to follow through.
Prime example:

Keisha: This year I'ma be more like Mother Theresa so I'll cut back on my cursing and be kind to others.
Ray: Yo Keisha you wanna go out with me?
Keisha: Fu*k no! Why the heck would I go out with a chump like you..I have better things to do.

^^^ Why the heck would you make an unrealistic N.Y.R like that... I'm just saying. But anyways whatever resolution you choose whether its to be a better person, go back to school, get your money up, etc...just make sure you're doing it for you and not anyone else.

So I ask you what is your N.Y.R. and how proactive are you with it.....

What is No Accessory?

Hey friends,
I guess you're wondering what the heck is "No Accessory"... well basically No Accessory blog site talks about specific and general situations in life, love, relationships, friendships, etc. If you already know me, then you know I always keep it real so don't expect anything less. No Accessory does not draw attention from the main truth - no chaser, no accessory - just like the person behind the site (me).

With all of the projects I have in the works in terms of my magazine 3KINGS, you may be wondering why am I doing No Accessory... well truth is, why wouldn't I? lol. I love writing, love doing different things and channeling my muse into creative outlets.

Your feedback/comment is definitely appreciated and encouraged. If you feel the need to contact me, I can be reached at deleon_hazel@yahoo.com. You can also check me out on twitter @DeLeonH